Playing by those rules today isn’t
just old-fashioned; it’s just plain limiting. Today, we as women have more
freedom than at any other time in human history. We can work in whatever job we
want, live wherever we want, and date whomever we want! Why, then, would we
willingly step back under the yoke of courtship Do’s and Don’ts designed in a
culture that’s long past and good riddance?
Because, in the often-confusing
modern dating world, rules make us feel safe. Do’s and Don’ts can keep us from
making mistakes. Dating “rules” (like ending a phone call first, or not
accepting a weekend date after Wednesday) can prevent us from getting rejected. Or can they?
If you keep yourself from doing certain
things around men and make yourself do others based on FEAR that you’ll make a
mistake or FEAR that he’ll reject you, then you’re setting the foundation for a
relationship based on insecurity.
It’s the same error our
grandmothers and great-grandmothers made so many years ago: they looked to the
MEN to define whether they were in a relationship, what form it would take, and
how long it would last.
As a result, the only way women
were able to influence the outcome was through indirect means – such being
mysterious, playing “hard to get,” and not letting on how they felt – to get
what they wanted.
Today, it’s wonderful that men and
women both can be so open, honest, and direct about topics that were taboo just
a few generations before. But with this freedom comes power … and a great deal
of confusion.
Even though the old rules were
restricting, at least they gave us the confidence of familiarity. We knew what
to do. We knew what the man’s role was, and we knew what the woman’s role was.
But if men and women each have an
equal say in dating and relationships, then who is supposed to make the next
move … and what even IS the next move?
The old dating Do’s and Don’ts
simply are not flexible enough to account for the way society has changed and
the diversity of cultures that exists.
That’s why I believe it is so
important that we develop a new paradigm for dating and relationships that
reflects who we are as modern women in a modern dating world.
That's why Amy Waterman, author of How to Be Irresistible to Men, and
Marie Forleo, author of Make Every
Man Want You, got together to produce a dating course unlike any other.
They set out to show how women can find out what to do in ANY dating situation,
in a way that’s appropriate, effortless, and completely IRRESISTIBLE … all
without resorting to outdated Do’s and Don’t that may not even apply to them!
Their collaboration resulted in
the riveting audio program, Make
Every Man Want You MORE! Over the six-lesson course, Amy and Marie lay
out the essential tools every modern woman needs in a modern dating world, what
it takes to move a relationship along from casual to committed, how to navigate
tricky dating areas like communication, sex, “baggage” from your past, and
more.
Single women today can feel
enormously pressured to live up to a high standard in ALL areas of their life,
from their careers to their appearance to their love life. If you don’t want to
settle for anything less than excellence in life AND love, then Make Every Man Want You More will teach you how to effortlessly and
flawlessly achieve your goals.
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